The years when the patterns get set.

You already see these clients. You were never trained for them.

• A couple who says they fight about money, when money has never once been the actual subject.

• Both partners certain the problem is the other one, and both partly right.

• The same argument every few weeks with the content swapped out.

• Two people who talk constantly and understand each other less every year.

What changes.

The question your client walks in with, and the one you learn to work instead.

• “Why isn't my partner doing this the way I expected?”

  →“How do we build a relationship that works for both of us?”

• “We need to communicate better.”

  →“How do we talk so defensiveness stops being necessary?”

• “How do we stop fighting?”

  →“How do we fight in a way that does less damage and reveals more truth?”

What is inside.

Trainings 3, 4 and 5 of the Weinberg Compass, recorded and self-paced. Yours to work through at whatever speed your caseload allows.

• 01

  Why the formative years matter, and how quickly early patterns entrench.

• 02

  The marriage they expected against the marriage they have, and how to work the gap without dismissing it.

• 03

  The invisible contract. Roles and responsibilities nobody ever negotiated out loud.

• 04

  Money as a relational issue rather than a budgeting one.

• 05

  Extended family, and where the couple boundary has to sit.

• 06

  Listening to understand. Validation without agreement, which is the skill most couples cannot do.

• 07

  Curiosity instead of defensiveness, and how to speak without triggering it in the first place.

• 08

  Turning a complaint into the vulnerability underneath it.

• 09

  The anatomy of a fight, and the pursuer-withdrawer cycle driving most of them.

• 10

  Emotional flooding: when to keep going and when the conversation has to stop.

• 11

  Repair, effective apology, and accountability that leads to changed behavior.

• 12

  Forgiveness, and what it is not.

Who is teaching this.